....I will not automatically dial my mother's number when I start a phone number off with a "3".

....I will be able to walk thru the stores I shopped at with her and not feel a pang of sadness.

....I will not automatically look at her house when I drive by (or maybe I can just stop driving by??--its hard when she's a block away).

....I will not worry about holidays and how it will work while not having her in my life (do I call her to say "Happy Birthday?" or any other holiday?)

....people will stop expecting us to "work it out".

....I will stop having anger towards her.

....I will stop remembering what I lost.

....I will learn who I am without her influence.  This part will take the longest, but I am ready. 

....I will become fully and wholly me.