I totally have been in a calm place with my mother for the past many months.  Nothing significant has happened.  Although the anger is still there, creeping below the surface, threatening to blow at any given moment when its applicable.  Meaning, when she acts like a fool.

So what happened the other day, I am surprised that I did not blow up.

My mother took my son on Thursday, the 17th to see some WWII planes and I stayed back at her house to play with her dog and our new kitten.  I needed some paper and took a pad down, which was in plain sight.  Totally not hidden.  It just dawned on me that my mother recently had cleaned the shit out of her all her drawers and computer desk and everything everywhere, and that was in plain sight.  Hmmm.....left for me to find "accidentally?"

So the letter started nice, to my mother's deceased husband's oldest daughter (confusing much?), which by marriage I guess would be my stepsister?  Whatever.  I don't call her that.

But anyways, my mom really doesn't like her. 

So she writes in this letter that "Once she stopped harassing you, she then turned on me" or something of the sort.  Or something like "she turned her (something I can't remember at the moment) on me".  I will find the paper and put it in where when I find it.

*sigh*  Goes to show: even when a narc is being nice, they aren't actually being nice.  It's all a pretend joke to them.  A game.