and all through the house.  Not a creature was stirring, except for the narcissistic mother who called seven times in a row demanding you take her somewhere.  Where?  Her message did not say.  But she sure wanted to go!  Alas, you were not home, so you did not get the phone call(s) (or you were, but it was the weekend and you didn't want to spend another day carting her ass around town for no reason).

So you call her the next day, to see what she wanted, and she's being a whiny little baby, making all sorts of threats and whatnot.  You, being the educated child of a narcissist, didn't fall for one of her games.  There was intimidation, threats, guilt trips, excuses, lies, and everything in between.  But you stood your ground, gave her solutions to every single issue she brought up (which didn't fare well, as they can not respond when there is a solution, as they are trying to hurt you, and solutions only shut their abuse down).  When the solutions would not work, she moved on to other things to complain about.  But you shut them down, too.  Then she got hostile.  And when you shut her down again, she accused you of overreacting.  So you hung up on her.  Because there was nothing else to say.

Then you left the house, went an picked up her meds for her ($3 copay, that she just HAD to leave the house the day before to go get, but yet refused to tell you she needed her meds), picked up her candy, and dropped it off to her (and had your son bring it in, as she won't get sassy with him).

And now, all is well.

The End.

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HAHAHAHAH Yeah right!  As if that's the end!  But wouldn't that be nice?  This whole scenario actually happened, but there WILL be punishment for putting her in her place.  Mark my words.  But you know what?  Who cares?  I am finally in a spot (mostly there) that I don't NEED to keep her in my life if I don't have to.  We'll see after taxes and other things if there needs to be any more contact.  But still, it felt good to NOT give into any of her little stupid games :)  I laid the truth out straight and now we'll see if she'll back down, or combat me harder.  I TOLD her today, that 100%, if she tries to drive her car or keeps on bugging me about driving, I will wash my hands of her completely (which ended up actually happening--in 2017 I gave her her car back and I went no contact for fourteen months!).  Actually, no matter what, she's never going to drive again, I will see to that.  She has dementia and can't stay her in lane, EVER, and almost hits every car we pass by.  Thing is, she can SEE she's not in the lane, and refuses to get back into her lane (she's in the middle of the road).  I will have her license revoked AND I will call 911 if she ever got behind the wheel.  And now when we're out, I will NEVER give her my keys to sit in the car again.  I will use the remote start and the automatic unlock button to let her in.  But no more touching my keys.  PERIOD (she tried to drive a week or so ago by tricking me into giving her the keys, because she was "cold in the car"--even though it was 45-50 degrees out and nice).  I had to threaten her in front of strangers that I wasn't going to get into the car until she moved into the passenger seat.

And today she was bitching about paying for a car she can't drive.  I said "So give it back to the car lot".  She had no answer for that LOL

*sigh*  I am just so tired of this.  Change is coming in 2016.  One way or another.  I will either getting her a nurse to drive her everywhere, she will be put into a home if her dementia gets worse, or I will just walk away from her, completely (ding ding ding! I did the last one!)

2016 resolution: I am done taking her shit.  I'm going to get mouthy! (something I actually did! haha!)