For two days in a row, I've dealt with people who have been telling me that they believe that narcissism can be cured with "therapy, introspection, and healing". ...... Yes, you heard me right. Just let that sink in for a moment.  Though, I do realize that people don't really...

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In case you didn't know, we make tshirts to empower survivors of narcissistic abuse 😁  Here is our latest:   You can get yours by clicking here (and you can check out the other shirts we have available as well!!)...

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  I really thought I could do this.  I really thought that after our conversation the other day she "got it" and understood why I won't speak to my mother.  *sigh*  Turns out, I was so very, very wrong. So, the other day she tells me that my mother asked if I...

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She doesn't get to use my name and my driving record to help her insurance rates.  So forgive me if I get a little kick when I find out that her insurance rates almost doubled due to removing me 😜😝  Oops.  She already got a couple months out of it, but...

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An extinction event is the narcissist's one last hoorah, the final blow they inflict on their victim when their victim humiliates them (usually from us walking away from them, but it can be for any reason).  In high school, I had a narc boyfriend who was physically abusive.  And when I...

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So today I learned that my batshit crazy (funny thing: I wrote catshit instead of batshit, though both do work) cousin was going to sue me because she thought that her job would find my old blog (somehow magically??) and figure out I was talking about her (somehow magically??) and fire...

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When I was 17, I had a miscarriage.  I remember that night very well.  I knew something was wrong but I was so conditioned by my parents to just ignore my own pain, that that's what I did: ignore it.  Ovulation, back then, was painful for me.  Like, really, really painful. ...

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I've realized that the number one thing we all need to learn to be happy in life is to release ourselves from the attachment to other people's choices. How many times have you cruised the narcissist(s) in your life's Facebook page and see all the things they are doing without us...

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Today my mother told our mutual friend that I will regret not having her in my life before she dies.  That I will be sad and regret not making up.  Well, here's what I have to say about that! ...

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  Having a mutual friend with my mother is annoying at times, but at other times, it serves as a great reminder of why I will not go back to having contact with her. Hearing things through the grapevine is still not 100% no contact if you don't tell your friend to...

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