My mother is the same person she always was, and always will be.  She's quiet for a long time, then she gets a hair up her ass and then starts acting up, then I have to post a new sign in the house.  Rinse, lather, repeat.  I am tired talking about...

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Hello Chinese bot!  You've invaded my blog  and now I get lots of views on each post and they're all you!  I am not sure why you're here....and I am not sure how to get rid of you.  Granted, if you're here to bring me more blog post reads, then sure. ...

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I've seen way too many therapists this year already.  Patrick switched me to Jessamine and I don't like her.  I really liked Patrick.  He was my style of personality.  Whereas Jessamine is so quiet, I can't hear her and she just does the repeating thing and the other thing where they...

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 "She let my cat die alone in the cat litter."This is the story I've been telling since Dobby died.  Dobby was a large back and a little white cat we had since our first apartment in 2005.  He passed away in the late teens due to FIV.  And my mother refused...

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Sigh.  I am not sure if I like this one.  But I am sticking with her because she has things to teach me.  And I am excited for it.  So even if she sucks as a traditional therapist (or would even suck as a friend--not mine, just anyone's), maybe she's in...

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I am used to my mother's rejection.  I am used to knowing she doesn't love me or even care about my well-being.  I've come to terms with that.  It's taken me a bit, but I've been here for awhile, so it's okay.  It's just something that is, something I can't change...

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 I am so sorry, I feel like such an ass, but I had to upload an actual picture of my ex-husband.  I know, I know, I am supposed to be anonymous here.  But it just had to be done.  No, I am not making fun of southern folk.  My ex is not...

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Trigger Warning: sexual trauma and rapeSo, I was going to send a letter to my old friend Tricia, but after doing some journaling about it, I realized I forgive her and I don't need to send it.  That the issue was mine to get over and it had nothing to do...

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We come home from the park yesterday (because apparently January is the month now that we go to the park) and my son walks into the bathroom and says "Oh wow!  Thanks, Mom!" I was confused.  "Why, what did I do?" I asked.  "You organized the bathroom!"  Oh god.  Oh no.  What...

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So, I found this YouTube channel named Psychology with Dr. Ana.  And her video on estranged parents came up and I started watching it.  After hearing what it said, I started it over and put it on pause.  I then fed my mother dinner and didn't turn on the classical music...

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 It's Tuesday, January 28th, 2025.  I had my hysterectomy last Thursday, the 23rd.  It was terrifying, but it's been five days and I am doing better.  I still can't do much without pain, so I stay still most of the time.  I have made the mistake twice of feeling great, then...

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I wrote about this before, and I can't believe I am writing about it again.  There has to be a point where this stops.  I am not here to be used and I refuse to put my family in position by people who have NO CLUE what they're doing to get...

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Today I had a endometrial biopsy and hot damn did that hurt.  I even dropped an F bomb quite loudly LOL  A week from Thursday I will have my hysterectomy.  I am terrified, but at the same time, I deal with it by numbing myself to the fear.  I just put it...

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Sigh.  Mother wants to cash in her lottery tickets.  Why?  She's not allowed to have cash and she knows it.  The last time she bribed Christmas to buy her illegal (illegal in this house) cat medication and I told her she's no longer allowed to have cash.  Ever.  And she wants me...

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